You get to choose. I refuse it, but am torn whether to express my opinion that they should refuse it.
It is okay to be excited and a little infatuated over new friendships. Look yourself in the eye -- no kidding, head to the mirror -- ask yourself dead on: This is great news.
You have someone who volunteered to have it not be all on you. The way I read this, you got a little scared, got a little wake-up call, but you value this friendship too much to give up on it easily. Get a crush on someone else.
And you'll feel better too, I promise. If you think she might be prone to catastrophizing the situation, avoid it.
My wife and I have been to hell and back and everything in between. The only conclusions I see is that 1 you won't tell your spouse 2 you are "committed to continuing this friendship". Simpson is interested in your family life, and your place in it. Immersing yourself in life outside of the workplace can be helpful, says communication consultant William Gorden on his website, "Ask the Workplace Doctors.
I know, you're all thinking WTF, we've all given you good advice, and you're just throwing it to the wind and you're going to keep hanging out with her and you'll F up, but I owe her this continued friendship too, at the very least not weirding out and avoiding her for no apparent reason. You do need it, as much as you don't want to admit it.
Posted by: Zunris | on October 2, 2012
Take some time--maybe some time off work, your marriage is important enough for this--and make up your mind what you're going to do. So if you want to kill this crush, step one would be to confess and get thee to counselling.
One day you'll wake up and it will be as though someone had thrown a switch, and all you feel is kind of embarrassed. Well, which way do you want this to go?
I direction like I owe a quantity clarification and response, though. It's a new she has that she doesn't periphery about, even if it's not her hip that it has.
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